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Dad could relate to people from all walks of life. He was an empathetic man. He valued character over pedigree. And he was no cynic. He looked for the good in each person \u2014 and usually found it.<\/p>\n
Dad taught us that public service is noble and necessary; that one can serve with integrity and hold true to the important values, like faith and family. He strongly believed that it was important to give back to the community and country in which one lived. He recognized that serving others enriched the giver\u2019s soul. To us, his was the brightest of a thousand points of light.<\/p>\n
In victory, he shared credit. When he lost, he shouldered the blame. He accepted that failure is part of living a full life, but taught us never to be defined by failure. He showed us how setbacks can strengthen.<\/p>\n
To his very last days, Dad\u2019s life was instructive. As he aged, he taught us how to grow old with dignity, humor, and kindness \u2014 and, when god finally called, how to meet him with courage and with joy in the promise of what lies ahead.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
One reason Dad knew how to die young is that he almost did it \u2014 twice. When he was a teenager, a staph infection nearly took his life. , I think\u00a0 brushes with death made him cherish the gift of life. And he vowed to live every day to the fullest.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
Dad was always busy \u2014 a man in constant motion \u2014 but never too busy to share his love of life with those around him. He taught us to love the outdoors.\u00a0 once confined to a wheelchair, he seemed happiest sitting in his favorite perch on the back porch contemplating the majesty of it all.. The horizons he saw were bright and hopeful. He was a genuinely optimistic man. And that optimism guided his children and made each of us believe that anything was possible.<\/p>\n
He continually broadened his horizons with daring decisions. He was a patriot.<\/p>\n
He was a tolerant man. After all, he was kind and neighborly to the women with whom he, Mom and I shared a bathroom in our small duplex \u2014 even after he learned their profession \u2014 ladies of the night.<\/p>\n
Dad could relate to people from all walks of life. He was an empathetic man. He valued character over pedigree. And he was no cynic. He looked for the good in each person \u2014 and usually found it.<\/p>\n
Dad taught us that public service is noble and necessary; that one can serve with integrity and hold true to the important values, like faith and family. He strongly believed that it was important to give back to the community and country in which one lived. He recognized that serving others enriched the giver\u2019s soul. To us, his was the brightest of a thousand points of light.<\/p>\n
In victory, he shared credit. When he lost, he shouldered the blame. He accepted that failure is part of living a full life, but taught us never to be defined by failure. He showed us how setbacks can strengthen.<\/p>\n
None of his disappointments could compare with one of life\u2019s greatest tragedies, the loss of a young child. I was too young to remember the pain and agony he and Mom felt when our 3-year-old sister died. We only learned later that Dad, a man of quiet faith, prayed for her daily. He was sustained by the love of the almighty and the real and enduring love of our mom. Dad always believed that one day he would hug his precious baby again.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
He loved to laugh, especially at himself. He could tease and needle, but never out of malice. He placed great value on a good joke. he had a circle of friends with whom he shared or received the latest jokes. His grading system for the quality of the joke was classic. The rare 7s and 8s were considered huge winners \u2014 most of them off-color.<\/p>\n
Dad knew how to be a true and loyal friend. He honored and nurtured his many friendships with his generous and giving soul. There exist many handwritten notes encouraging, or sympathizing, or thanking his friends and acquaintances.<\/p>\n
He had an enormous capacity to give of himself. Many a person would tell you that Dad became a mentor and a father figure in their life. He listened and he consoled. He was their friend.\u00a0 My siblings and I refer to the guys in this group as \u201cbrothers from other mothers.\u201d<\/p>\n
He taught us that a day was not meant to be wasted.<\/p>\n
Well, here\u2019s my conclusion: He played fast so that he could move on to the next event, to enjoy the rest of the day, to expend his enormous energy, to live it all. He was born with just two settings: full throttle, then sleep.<\/p>\n
He taught us what it means to be a wonderful father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. He was firm in his principles and supportive as we began to seek our own ways. He encouraged and comforted, but never steered. We tested his patience \u2014 I know I did \u2014 but he always responded with the great gift of unconditional love.<\/p>\n
When I was told he had minutes to live, I called him. The guy who answered the phone said, \u201cI think he can hear you, but hasn\u2019t said anything most of the day.<\/p>\n
I said, \u201cDad, I love you, and you\u2019ve been a wonderful father.\u201d<\/p>\n
And the last words he would ever say on earth were, \u201cI love you, too.\u201d<\/p>\n
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