{"id":1547,"date":"2019-10-05T09:44:04","date_gmt":"2019-10-05T13:44:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/greenstairsacademy.com\/dev\/?page_id=1547"},"modified":"2020-02-17T14:02:45","modified_gmt":"2020-02-17T19:02:45","slug":"my-life-is-changing-as-i-entermy-fifth-decade","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/greenstairsacademy.com\/dev\/2019-class-notes-and-feedback\/my-life-is-changing-as-i-entermy-fifth-decade\/","title":{"rendered":"2019 Oct -How my life is changing as I enter my fifth decade"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>APPROACHING 50 &amp; 55s A friend of mine crossed 50 and is heading to 55.<br>\nI asked him what&#8217;s changing?<br>\nHe sent me following lines:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nAfter loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children, my friends, now I have started loving myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI just realised that I am not \u201cAtlas\u201d. The world does not rest on my shoulders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI now stopped bargaining with vegetables &amp; fruits vendors. After all, a few Rupees more is not going to burn a hole in my pocket but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter\u2019s school fees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI pay the taxi driver without waiting for the change. The extra money might bring a smile on his face. After all he is toiling much harder for a living than me<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI stopped telling the elderly that they&#8217;ve already narrated that story many times. After all, the story makes them walk down the memory lane &amp; relive the past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI&#8217;ve learnt not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. After all, the onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing.  <br>\nI give compliments freely &amp; generously. After all it&#8217;s a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI&#8217;ve learnt not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt. After all, personality speaks louder than appearances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI walk away from people who don&#8217;t value me. After all, they might not know my worth, but I do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI remain cool when someone plays dirty politics to outrun me in the rat race. After all, I am not a rat &amp; neither am I in any race.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions. After all, it&#8217;s my emotions that make me human.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI have learnt that its better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. After all, my ego will keep me aloof whereas with relationships I will never be alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI&#8217;ve learnt to live each day as if it&#8217;s the last. After all, it might be the last .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am changing. <br>\nI am doing what makes me happy. After all, I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>APPROACHING 50 &amp; 55s A friend of mine crossed 50 and is heading to 55. I asked him what&#8217;s changing? He sent me following lines: Yes, I am changing. After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children, my friends, now I have started loving myself. Yes, I am changing. 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